


Rambam's Ladder: A Meditation of Generosity
and Why It Is Necessary to Give
Julie Salamon
Workman Publishing, New York (2003)
Reviewed by Mary Case
and Anita Durel
Complex systems can only be built step by step, whereas
destruction requires but an instant…every spectacular incident
of evil will be balanced by 10,000 acts of kindness, too often
unnoted and invisible as the ordinary efforts of the vast majority.
- Stephen Jay Gould
Why are people good? Thus begins Julie Salamon’s
meditation on giving, an aspect of goodness. Salamon uses as her
organizing principles the prolific writings of twelfth century Rabbi
Moses ben Maimon, known to his followers as Rambam. Her meditation
provides the individual giver, nonprofit leaders, and fundraisers
everywhere with a framework that opens the door to understanding
generosity, donor motivations and the role nonprofits play in philanthropy.
Rambam argues that the world in inherently out
of balance and the impulse behind all giving is to achieve a better
balance. His treatise on the poor distills his philosophy on charity
into eight steps on a ladder. Review of these steps causes you to
consider your own beliefs on issues of proportion (what is the right
amount to give?), timing, solicitation, and boundaries – all
issues of vital importance in the nonprofit world.
Salamon, a critic for the New York Times, widely
published, spends time within the ladder’s structure discussing
compassion fatigue, philanthropy as big business, holier-than-thou
experiments, celebrity charities, corporate giving, relinquishing
control of a gift, and American aid to other countries.
The continuing growth of American nonprofits underscores
desperate needs in our communities that can, collectively, overwhelm
us and leave us feeling this is “just the way things are.”
Instilling confidence, demonstrating that every gift counts, and
that investment in our work does make a difference, remains a challenge
for charities. One way to personally relieve the fatigue or helplessness
is by making thoughtful, targeted gifts--gifts that reflect your
values and concern.
Big salaries, bureaucratic structures, and generous
endowments in many large institutions arouse suspicion and create
an image of giving as a big business—almost a shakedown. That’s
one reason why the circumstances that surround philanthropy are
measured against the yardstick of accountability. Without the public
trust, nonprofits cannot operate.
Just as important in this equation is the role
of professional staff in guiding others through this maze as they
consider gifts to our institutions. We forget that every member
of the organization has a role to play in attracting and retaining
supporters to do this good work. We have a responsibility to educate
the entire staff on the development process and invite them to play
cultivation and stewardship roles.
As you review the ladder, give thought to the
way love for humanity as a noble precept helps rebalance the economy.
Think about how your own motives for giving may or may not align
with getting the job done (feeding the homeless, producing the exhibit,
developing the community, educating the children). And seriously
incorporate these values into your institutional approach to philanthropy
and fundraising. In the end, if you serve your donor’s needs
and deeply rooted honorable intentions, you will make a friend for
life and you will both feel fulfilled in the partnership.
The Ladder of Charity
8/Responsibility
At the top of the ladder is the gift of self-reliance. To hand someone
a gift or a loan, or to enter into a partnership with him, or to
find work for him, so that he will never have to beg again.
7/Anonymity
To give to someone you don’t know and do so anonymously.
6/Corruption
To give to someone you know, but who doesn’t know from whom
he is receiving help.
5/Boundries
To give to someone you don’t know, but allow your name to
be known.
4/Shame
To hand money to the poor before being asked, but risk making the
recipient feel shame.
3/Solicitation
To hand money to the poor after being asked.
2/Proportion
To give less to the poor than is proper, but to do so cheerfully.
1/Reluctance
To give begrudgingly.
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